Yes, it’s been a long, hard winter. But God in His mercy
promises that spring will come, in His good time. Meanwhile, we can make sure
our hearts remain warm to His bidding. The closer we stay in His Word and
presence, the warmer our hearts—for Him and for others.
ETERNAL PERSPECTIVES by Sally Bair
Melting Ice
One of these days we will witness snow and ice melting. For
many of us, that day can’t come soon, what with the long, hard winter we’re
experiencing. Meanwhile, we watch the icicles along the eaves of our houses
grow longer and thicker. We see the lakes and rivers encased in hard, cold ice.
People’s hearts sometimes become encased in ice, too.
Someone’s unwarranted anger or thoughtlessness can cause a thin crust of icy
frustration or hurt to an injured soul. The longer we allow feelings to rankle,
the thicker the icy layer becomes. “I’ll never forgive that person” is a common
lament of many. Like the infamous Hatfields and McCoys, an unforgiving act can
be carried through the generations until today’s families don’t even know what
injustice brought on the feud.
Jesus showed and taught forgiveness wherever He went. His
ultimate act of forgiveness came at His death when He forgave not only His
disciples for turning their backs on Him, but those responsible for His death.
Though most of us won’t have to go through such drastic
persecution, our job is to follow His example—being willing to forgive our
persecutors 70 times seven.
Such a hard act to follow! Our emotions don’t always feel
like forgiving. But if we choose to trust and obey God, He will give us
strength to resist the urge to resent our enemy. With His power, we can forget
the wrong. Many say, “I can forgive but I can’t forget.” That popular phrase is
one we should never settle for. We are to forgive as Christ forgave
us—unconditionally, purposefully, and lovingly.
Medical science now claims that with forgiveness comes
emotional freedom. Their discovery is not new. God’s Word teaches that as we
forgive, and actually love, those who have wronged us, our inner being will
change. He wants to wash away our pain and shame, and replace it with His
peace. All we have to do is ask.
“Love keeps no record of wrongs,” Paul says in 1 Corinthians
13:5. God does not want us to be scorekeepers of the wrongs we’ve suffered.
Like a frozen lake or an icicle, our heart can thaw and warm when it is full of
forgiveness and love.
“Lord, we don’t want
our heart to be icy cold. Give us the grace to forgive others regardless of
their motives. Help us leave the pain and shame behind so we can walk with
peaceful, joyful, loving hearts. In Jesus’ name, amen.