When it comes to impulsive acts, I consider myself
the queen of errors. Some have been humorous, others seriously stupid. I thank
God for His patience and the refreshing ways He uses to turn something not so
great into something wonderful. However, that should not keep any of us from
trying to mend our impulsive ways. Happy mending—with the perfect thread and
needle of God’s Spirit.
ETERNAL PERSPECTIVES by
Sally Bair
Impulsive
acts
To my regret, many times I’ve acted
impulsively. As a small youngster, I still ate more than my farmer-dad. I’d
come home from school starved—yelling to my mom, “Food, food! I need food!”
I’d down half a loaf of Mom’s homemade bread, still warm from the oven.
Trouble is, even when I wasn’t hungry, I often stuffed my mouth with food,
without thinking.
Esau of the Old Testament ate
impulsively, too. In fact, he ate his way right out of his inheritance. After
hunting one day, he demanded that his brother Jacob give him some homemade
stew. “I’m starving!” he said. Jacob thought, “Aha! Here’s my opportunity,” and offered Esau a
meal of stew in exchange for his birthright. Esau allowed his hunger to get the
best of his common sense.
Hebrews 12:16-17 tells us to “watch
out for the Esau syndrome: trading away God’s lifelong gift in order to satisfy
a short-term appetite.” Esau later
regretted his impulsive act but in spite of his copious tears, he could not get
his inheritance back.
Other kinds of unsatisfying hunger
can get the best of us if we’re not careful. How many families have been
destroyed because one spouse maxed out the credit cards on items that bring
“happiness” for a short time? How many
marriages have been shattered because of excessive drinking or taking
drugs? How many Christians have lost out
on God’s blessing of peace because they allowed worry or fear to cloud their
reliance on God?
Esau saw his physical prowess and
hunting ability as his strength and it led to one huge, impulsive act that
brought great regret. Like Esau we too have short-lived desires that make us
weak and vulnerable.
The acronym, HALT, can help us
prevent impulsive acts. We can HALT—stop and think—whenever we’re Hungry,
Angry, Lonely, or Tired. Those four feelings tend to make us act impulsively.
Eventually, because of them, we can lose out on God’s gracious promises—our
spiritual inheritance of peace with him and the hope of eternal life.
The HALTing part can include taking
a walk, seeking out a supportive friend, praying, or bringing to our memory a
Bible verse. God is our strength in times of need. In believing, we will
receive. We don’t have to trade away God’s lifelong gifts in order to satisfy
our short-term appetites.
Lord, Thank You for Your blessings,
especially for Your strength that helps prevent us from acting impulsively. In
Jesus’ name, amen.